1. TAKE A LOOK AT HIS PAST RELATIONSHIPS.
Find out if he ever had any serious relationships in the past and if he ever saw any of his past relationships leading toward marriage. “I think it’s fair for a girl to ask why previous relationships haven’t worked out,” says Shane, a single man. “The response to those questions should provide an accurate glimpse as to his level of seriousness. If a guy hasn’t approached his previous relationships with an openness towards marriage, it’s unlikely he will change rapidly at the advent of a new girlfriend relationship.”
2. HAS HE DONE THE WORK SINCE HIS LAST GIRLFRIEND?
Don’t end the conversation after the past relationships talk. According to these men, it’s also really important to know why it didn’t work out. Or, perhaps more importantly, for him to know why it didn’t lead to marriage.
3. DOES HE HAVE A MATURE UNDERSTANDING OF MARRIAGE?
Shane mentioned that it’s important that a man demonstrate an openness toward marriage, which is good advice to be sure. But Chris adds that what often sets apart the man who is really ready for marriage from the man who just fancies he is, is a mature understanding of what marriage really means in the first place. The man who jokes about the ball and chain and someone to “keep him in line” is not likely going to be as eager to commit as the guy who sees marriage as an opportunity for growth and deep partnership. http://bit.ly/2unODKe